In all relationships when the communication is closed by one person, everything is dead. Sometimes we come across some unpleasant situations because let’s face it when we put together two persons who have different opinions, mindsets, believes some conflictual situation might occur.
In the beginning, the relationship is like a fragile, small boat and when a small storm is coming in, this boat is too unstable to resist, will be shacked so the boat will sink, there is nothing there to sustain it. So, I think that here if the communication is closed, one of the people close in his shell everything is lost.
We can not have everything fell into place all the time, working smoothly and nice, so most of the time we encounter some conflictual discussions without the communication, the ability to listen, to empathize we are not able to go through those moments in which we are not on the same page. Of course, a relationship involves two parties, so depends on both on what they want and what they expect one from another if what has been said or done can be overcome or not.
But we are living in a world with a lot of options, or at least with the illusion of having infinite options. And this is made possible by the internet, we have this false impression that we have access to anything and we can do anything, but we actually have a limited number of options and choices because this is done by what we know, done, said, learned, etc.. we can not choose from what we don’t know or we don’t have access to.
So most of the decisions that you make in life are based on something that we already, or know or experience, we do things based on patterns (previous experiences, decisions, situations that we lived, etc..).